This is the exact timeline of everything tpt. I started playing when there only was Falling Sand, before dan ball's version, which was quite a while ago. Read my other posts for more info. Hope this helps!
Also, everybody has been asking for a iphone/ipod touch tpt app: Falling Sand has 3 apps, 2 of them are free. Although, remember that it is based on the old falling sand game, so dont expect tons of features that tpt has.
Finalflash50 Thisissand was a very old game which was similar to falling sand. I didn't put it in my timeline because it never was an influence to tpt. It was one of the first physic simulation games, and it pioneered the physics simulator genre of games.