Well... at the moment I can't think of many things that could help you get with her, but here are some. 1) You aren't very muscular? Work out, go on google, pick out some workouts, build your routine from that. This will make you happier, and more confident. 2)Be confident. May seem simple, but just act like you're confident in who you are and try not to let things bother you. If you act like you're content with your life, you may start BEING content with your life. 3)As for actually talking just be confident and have a normal conversation. I'm not sure of your social state(it was only this year that I actually stopped being... socially retarded I guess?) so I'll tell you this. Never mention video games around girls, and only talk about them around guys when someone else brings up the conversation(same applies to anything else that can be labeled nerdy). 4)This one is actually fairly useful. If you're testing the waters with her, pose suggestive things as jokes, if she reacts harshly(gives you a wierd look, says "What?" shocked, or similar), just say "I'm kidding, I'm kidding. Calm down...". Hope this helps you :)
EDIT: @roguegeneral--'s post reminded me of something. Girls judge looks a lot less than guys(they still do of course, just less), so being a comfortable person to be around, being nice to her, and occasionally buying her things will help(I don't mean get her things at random until you're dating, giving her a necklace or a big teddy bear may creep her out). I mean like if you're hanging out with her and she sounds like she wants something(small, like ice cream, as an example), offer to buy it.
Yea, about the not to muscular thing, I myself do not look to muscular, but the girl(s) I talk to know that I can handle my fair share of work (also - I am one of the top runners on xc team) Do not be afraid of work.
One of the BEST and easiest ways to gain strength and look like you work out is to do outside labor. This is things like landscaping, digging, mowing, etc. If you get lucky enough and find a girl that likes working outside, then do something outside with her.
@Cr15py(View Post) I couldn't believe my ears when the girl I'm interested in has played and completed Portal amongst others of my favourite game series'.
You think you've got it bad? I've got a crush on a girl that I've been friends with since 1st grade. And I'm as lame as a freshman can possibly get. >_<<br />
But for you I say just think about what you're going to say before you say it.
@Dwotci(View Post) Shes awesome. Beautiful, funny, eccentric. She really goes out of her way to make people feel good about themselves. I once messed up about 6 months ago but we werent going out. Recently we started seeing each other as friends again but shes seeing my friend that I've known since I was about 3 years old. I feel like crap at the moment AND they are trying to set me up with another girl which makes me feel bad because I said that I kind of liked her. :/