How do I talk to girls?
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@Nikolai-Kunsenstzov (View Post)
There are a lot of dos and don'ts. Unfortunately, you already have infatuous feeling for her, which is unfortunately human chemistry. What I mean is that you're already "sincerely" interested in an individual not necessarily yet interested in you sincerely. So here is my advice given the scenario:
DO NOT FLIRT. Don't believe even mutual flirtation to be a "sign of approval".
DO allow a long time (at your discretion) for developing a friendship first. This is absoluetely critical beyond critical if you'd ever expect to convince her you are sincerely interested in her, which is the ultimate goal, and seperates you from the majority.
DO attempt to develop a taste for things you don't currently enjoy, but she does. Expands your palate and expands your relationship.
DO NOT think it is a game of showcasing. You do not ever need to impress her, just the same as you shouldn't feel the need to impress your best friend, since moments like that come natural.
DO be sure to recognize what you're doing. You're attempting to befriend a human being who might not share the same desire. Not to discourage you, but again, show personal interest.
DO have a sense of integrity in things. I'm sure the average joe doesn't have a problem like this, but if it is offensive, like swearing, you might want to eliminate or qwell it. (EVEN if she adovcates it, and EVEN if she swears herself)
DO compliment her. BUT never on appearance, ever ever ever. Only compliment her on her accomplisments, perspectives, and goals, and ONLY compliment when SINCERE.
DON'T overly use common "hatreds" as a bond. As in "Don't you just hate Tom?" is a danger zone for discussion.
DO talk about yourself, ONLY when it is relevant to her. As in, Girl - "I love cookies!" Boy - "Really, I work at a bakery downtown!" Essentially, make sure (repetition) sincere personal interest is shown when doing this.
KNOW that enjoying her company because you think she's "hot" or "pretty" with show itself to be your intent. Make sure that the reason you enjoy her company is because you enjoy her for her. Everyone has a radar for that sort of thing.
There is plenty more, but I think that's a motherload for a forum for a game like TPT. If you'd like to discuss further, PM me, although I am sure this post'll be ignored. :-) But.... -
@MasterMind555 (View Post)
Nah, Nikolai-Kunsenstzov dosent need to worry about his looks, girls really dont care as much for physical appearance. -
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